Showing posts with label Divorce. Show all posts
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Sunday, November 27, 2016

Fifty Shades of Grace Chapter 19

Chapter 19-Revelation Made Easy—Part Two—Divorce Court 


The book of Revelation reveals Jesus Christ as the Redeemer who was promised long, long ago in Genesis 3:15. He is the King who restores Eden, the offspring of the woman Eve, and the Son of David. When a King begins to rule, the first thing he does is to secure his borders and build up his fortresses. The way Jesus did this is shown in the book of Acts. As new converts came to Christ, he secured them by giving them the gift of the Holy Spirit who dwelt within them and was a seal of their salvation. They could never again be captured by any enemy. They are His forever. 

Then he sent them out all over the world to establish churches. These churches were His way of building up his fortresses. Cities and towns all over the Roman Empire had pockets of Christians who were slowly building up the army of believers. 

Once these fortifications are in place, a King begins to make war on his enemies. In the first century, the greatest enemies of Jesus and the church were the unbelieving Jews. They were the ones who had Him crucified. Jesus made war on Jerusalem and completely destroyed the city and the temple and all evidence of the first (old) covenant. He did this in A.D. 70 and all the events of that time were recorded by a man named Josephus. 

You may remember back in Fifty Shades of Grace Chapter 8 how God divorced the ten tribes of Israel. Revelation  is a compelling divorce court drama about how God divorced Judah and put an end to the old covenant. Here is the evidence from the Old Testament: 

1.Israel was under a legal covenant from the time of Mt. Sinai in Exodus 19. 

2. As in any court, there were witnesses to this: Deuteronomy 4:26 says, “I call heaven and earth to witness against you today, that you will soon utterly perish from the land that you are going over the Jordan to possess. You will not live long in it, but will be utterly destroyed.” 

3. We know it was a marriage covenant: Jeremiah 2:2 says, “Thus says the Lord,“I remember the devotion of your youth, your love as a bride, how you followed me in the wilderness, in a land not sown."

4. Judah followed Israel down the path of idolatry which God calls adultery because she was his bride. Jeremiah 3:6-10 says, “The Lord said to me in the days of King Josiah: “Have you seen what she did, that faithless one, Israel, how she went up on every high hill and under every green tree, and there played the whore? And I thought, ‘After she has done all this she will return to me,’ but she did not return, and her treacherous sister Judah saw it. She saw that for all the adulteries of that faithless one, Israel, I had sent her away with a decree of divorce. Yet her treacherous sister Judah did not fear, but she too went and played the whore.  Because she took her whoredom lightly, she polluted the land, committing adultery with stone and tree.  Yet for all this her treacherous sister Judah did not return to me with her whole heart, but in pretense, declares the Lord.”

From all these passages in the Old Testament, we know that Judah will also be divorced by God and that he will begin a new covenant with a new bride—the church of Jesus Christ. We know from the Old Testament that judgment always begins at home. Israel was judged and then the other nations were judged. 

It is the same way in Revelation. Before beginning to destroy the unbelieving Jews, Christ sends letters to the 7 churches in Asia Minor warning them about staying faithful to the end. He commends them for what they are doing right and rebukes them for their lack of faithfulness and tells them what they have to do while they wait for him to return. Some of the things he tells them seem a little strange to us today because we don’t know the background of these cities. Just to give you a little idea of the context, I will give you a short history lesson on these seven churches.

Interesting facts about the 7 churches of Revelation

Ephesus (the city of change) was the most important city and capital of Asia Minor. It was a port city on the coast and its layout was a grid. IT had the largest amphitheater in the world and the breeze from the sea carried the sound so you could hear well in the cheap seats! The temple of Artemis (Diana) was located here and was one of the 7 wonders of the world. It also boasted a huge gymnasium which brought workouts to new heights. The gym was adjacent to bathing areas and had public toilets that accommodated up to 36 people at a time all in the wide open spaces with no privacy. It has a large library with four pillars inscribed with wisdom, knowledge, intelligence and destiny. Ephesus also had a huge Agora which would be like a modern day shopping mall where they sold textiles, wine, perfumes, foods—anything at all. Today Ephesus is about 6 miles inland from the shore because the harbor began to fill with soot and the coast receded. Ships could no longer harbor there. Jesus warned this church that they had lost their first love and needed to repent.
Smyrna (the city of life) is Ismir today. The church was probably founded by believers from Ephesus. It was very wealthy and the ruins of Smyrna lie in the heart of Ismir today. It was a crossroads of sea and land travel. The Agora in Smyrna was a 3-story structure. Polycarp, a disciple of John was martyred in Smyrna. He was appointed by John to be the bishop of Smyrna. He was martyred under the rule of Marcus Aurelios. While he was being tied to the stakes, the people heard a voice from heaven saying “Be strong Polycarp and play the man.” They meant to burn him alive, but after they tied him to the stake and started the fire, a wind came and swirled around him keeping the fire from burning him. His executioners then plunged a sword into his side and his blood gushed out extinguishing the fire. His death inspired and emboldened other saints. Interestingly, John had written in Revelation: “Do not fear what you are about to suffer...Be faithful unto death.” 
Pergamum (the city of authority) became the capital city of the Roman province in Asia and was a center of learning, medicine, and religious books. Its library rivaled the Alexandrian library and drew many princes, priests and scholars. Noted for its marble carvings and architectural beauty. They worshipped Zeus and Athena, the Roman Emperor and other gods. Some scholars believe that John’s friend Gaius was the first bishop of Pergamum. Jesus warned them in Revelation that some of them were going astray and they needed to repent.
Thyatira (Weakness made strong) was a small town noted for commerce and guilds such as tanners, coppersmiths, potters, and purple dyers. Lydia was from Thyatira. A woman whom Jesus called Jezebel was destroying this church with her immorality and the church was tolerating it. Jesus warned them about her and told them to hold fast until he returned. 
Sardis (the city of death) was a very wealthy city and also had a temple to Artemis. The people lived in luxury and had their gymnasiums and bath houses, one of which included a frigidarium for cold water baths for athletes. They looked vibrant and alive, but John wrote: “You have the reputation of being alive, but you are dead.” There were only a few true believers left at the time of Revelation. 
Philadelphia (the missionary city) An earthquake destroyed the city in AD 17, but Tiberius rebuilt it. It was famous for its grape industry, textiles and leather goods. It was called the “Gateway to the East.” Dionysius was the major god, but they also worshipped the sun and serpent gods. It was captured by the Turks in 1390. Christians lived there until the early 1900s. Jesus said this church was holding fast and keeping his word and they would be spared from the hour of trial coming on the whole world. 

Laodicea was extremely wealthy. It was located in the Lycus Valley and the city Hieropolis was to the north and had public baths from natural sources that had very hot water. Also nearby was the city of Colossae which had very cold water springs. However the aquaducts that brought water to Laodicea carried water that was tepid and tasteless and rather repulsive. So the Laodiceans knew what it meant to be neither hot nor cold and understood why a person would want to spit this out of his mouth. Jesus told this church it was lukewarm and said he would spit them out of his mouth. The Laodiceans were known for three things: wealth, clothing, and eye and ear medicines. Yet John wrote in Revelation that they were poor, naked and blind. Hmmmm.... Blinded by their affluence, they could not see what was coming. 
It was only by the GRACE of Christ that he lovingly told his church how to endure the upcoming tribulation. 
Random grace in my life looks like this:
The Children's Island

We rowed out to the island in Papa's boat.

Our three adorable passengers.

Somebody is taking "butthead" literally.

All worn out after a day of hard work!



Saturday, April 2, 2016

Fifty Shades of Grace Chapter 8

Chapter Eight—Adultery and Divorce

Did you ever read through the stories about the Old Testament Kings? First there was Saul who started out good but then became evil. Then David came along. He was a shepherd who took care of sheep, fighting off lions and tigers and bears…well maybe not tigers. But he was a courageous boy who fought off the giant Goliath with a little slingshot. He later became a courageous warrior and won victories over all of Israel’s enemies. David was a man after God’s own heart, and God loved David so much that he promised him that one of his sons would be a king who would do everything right and rule over his people forever and ever. Why couldn’t it be David? Well, even though David loved God with his whole heart, David wasn’t perfect. He committed several very bad sins like taking another man’s wife and then killing the man to cover up his sin. Just when we started to think David would be our hero, he had to go and blow it! 

David and Goliath

But then Solomon came along and he was the wisest man who ever lived. God especially loved Solomon and gave him all kinds of wisdom and made him rich and famous, too. Solomon was the one that God appointed to build the temple.

Solomon's Temple

All the kings of the earth came to bring him gifts and hear all his wisdom. Wow! We hope he will be the one who gets it all right, with all that wisdom and everything. But no. At the end of his life, he started to worship other gods. 

WHAT?!? 
HOW COULD HE DO THAT? 

Even the wisest man in the world has let us down. Why do we feel so disappointed? 

Rehoboam was the next king and he was only partly good but during his reign, God divided the kingdom into two nations: Israel and Judah. Jeroboam ruled over the ten tribes of Israel and he made golden calves for the people to worship and he told them a BIG FAT LIE! He said, “These are the gods who brought you out of the land of Egypt.” That is called rewriting history and rulers do it all the time to make their people follow them instead of God. Some of the people in Israel did not believe Jeroboam and they gave up all their property and possessions to go live in Judah so they could worship the true God. The nation of Israel never had good king again.


In 722 B.C. God finally divorced Israel! Remember how he made a marriage covenant with her in the wilderness? Remember what he told them about what would happen if they refused to obey? Well, Israel was never faithful to God again after Jeroboam. She committed spiritual adultery, worshipping other gods again and again, and God was patient for a very long time, but then he had to bring judgment on them. He issued a divorce decree and Israel was given over to the Assyrians. The Assyrians spread the Israelites out over the entire empire so that they lost their national identity and they never solidified to become a nation again. 


The nation of Judah was all that was left now and these people became known as Jews because that is much easier to say and spell than Judahites. The nation of Judah had some good kings and some bad kings. Abijah was the next king of Judah after Rehoboam and he was a bad king. His son Asa started out good, but then took a wrong turn and became bad. But Asa’s son Jehoshaphat was a very good king. King Jehoshaphat listened to the prophets of God and did what they told him to do. In most countries at that time, the king was the highest person in the land and he got to make all the rules. But in Judah, God was supposed to be the real king, and the prophets of God were his messengers to the kings, so the kings were supposed to listen to the prophets. 

Jehoshaphat was a good king who read the laws of God and  sent priests and Levites all throughout Judah to teach the people the laws of God. Then he even went out to all the cities himself to make sure they were getting it right! Do you think he might be the one who gets it all right and never does anything wrong? 

No. Jehoshaphat made some pretty bad choices. He made friends with the King of Israel who was one of the wickedest kings to ever live. His name was Ahab and he was married to someone even more wicked than he was. Her name was Jezebel and she worshipped lots of idols and killed the prophets of God. Ahab and Jezebel had a daughter named Athaliah and King Jehoshaphat made an agreement with Ahab that his son would marry Ahab’s daughter Athaliah. Boy, did that ever turn out to be a big mistake. 

Jehoshaphat also went to war as Ahab’s ally because he still believed the Israelites were God’s people. But they were not God’s people anymore and that was another big mistake. Jehoshaphat did continue to trust in God though and did very good things for the people, so even though he was a big sinner, he was a very good king because he trusted in God. 

Jehoshaphat’s son Jehoram was the next king and he was the one who married Athaliah. He was an evil king who did not trust God and he was so bad that God gave him a horrible disease and he died in a lot of pain but nobody cared. Then his son Ahaziah reigned for a few years but died very young so his mother, that wicked Athaliah took over the throne. She was even more wicked than her mother Jezebel. She tried to kill all of her grandchildren! How wicked is that?!? But one of them—a little one year old baby—was hidden and kept safe until he was old enough to be king. 

Evidence of God's Grace to Me: